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【TED】如何讓別人聽你說話 (How to speak so that people want to listen)
- 說話的七大原罪:
- gossip
- judging
- negativity
- complaining
- embroidery
- dogmatism
- 四個極具影響力的說話之道(HAIL):
- H: honesty
- A: authenticity
- I: integrity
- L: love
- 強化說話力道的工具:
- register
- timbre
- prosody
- pace
- silence
- pitch
- volume
經文
- 原來我們在許多事上都有過失;若有人在話語上沒有過失,他就是完全人,也能勒住自己的全身。(雅3:2)
- We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check.
- 這樣,舌頭在百體裏也是最小的,卻能說大話。 看哪,最小的火能點著最大的樹林。 舌頭就是火,在我們百體中,舌頭是個罪惡的世界,能污穢全身,也能把生命的輪子點起來,並且是從地獄裏點著的。(雅3:5-6)
- Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
- 我們用舌頭頌讚那為主、為父的,又用舌頭咒詛那照著神形像被造的人。頌讚和咒詛從一個口裏出來!我的弟兄們,這是不應當的!(雅3:9-10)
- With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be.
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- 你常犯說話七大原罪的哪種?
- 舉一個你覺得擁有說話影響力的人,用 HAIL 去分析他。
- 在今天的信息中有學習到什麼?
影片
【TED】成功者的8個特質 (8 traits of successful people - Richard St. John)
經文
我們又藉著他,因信得進入現在所站的這恩典中,並且歡歡喜喜盼望神的榮耀。 不但如此,就是在患難中也是歡歡喜喜的;因為知道患難生忍耐, 忍耐生老練,老練生盼望; 盼望不至於羞恥,因為所賜給我們的聖靈將神的愛澆灌在我們心裏。(羅5:2-5)
through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
- perseverance 不應該翻「忍耐」,而是「堅持」會比較恰當
- character 不應該翻「老練」,而是「品格」會比較恰當
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- 成功者的八個特質有哪些?
- 八個特質中覺得最被提醒的是哪一個?為什麼?
- 經文與這影片的信息給你在職場上的提醒是?
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